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You're Not Crazy: How to Break Free from the OCD and Anxiety Loop

By Matt Codde, LCSWMay 7, 2025

Are you struggling with intrusive thoughts, racing heart, or panic symptoms? You’re not alone—and more importantly, you’re not crazy. Here at Restored Minds, we understand what it’s like to feel stuck in the grip of OCD, anxiety, or stress.

The Truth About Anxiety: You’re Stuck in a Loop, Not “Going Crazy”

One of the most common fears among people experiencing anxiety or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is the worry that they might be “going crazy.” This fear can be so intense that it stops people from reaching out for help. The reality? Being stuck in an anxiety or OCD loop is a normal human experience, not a sign of madness.

According to Matt, presenter and founder of Restored Minds, the broad range of human emotions—including fear, anxiety, and even panic—is completely normal. “It’s not whether or not you’re going to experience fear in life—that’s not optional. But being stuck in the prison of fear is,” says Matt.

What is the OCD & Anxiety Loop?

The OCD and anxiety loop refers to the cycle that occurs when we experience distressing thoughts or sensations and then resist or judge them as bad. This resistance creates an internal pressure, causing the symptoms to intensify and the loop to continue.

Matt explains, “Anxiety itself is not a disease. It’s our resistance to anxiety that creates this problem. So it’s not the problem itself, it’s the resistance. Are you trying to push it away, push it down? All of that creates this internal pressure…the loop builds and builds and can take over your existence.”

Key Signs You’re in the Loop

  • Racing, intrusive thoughts
  • Physical symptoms like a tight chest, rapid heartbeat, or panic
  • Self-judgment or labeling yourself as “crazy” or broken
  • Trying to force away or suppress uncomfortable emotions

If any of these sound familiar, recognize that these are normal reactions—not evidence that something is fundamentally wrong with you.

How to Break Free from the Loop

The first step? Awareness. Knowing that you are experiencing anxiety or OCD—and that you are aware of these feelings and thoughts—means you have the capacity to change.

Matt encourages, “Your awareness of the fact that you’re having them is a direct indication that you aren’t experiencing something much more significant, where you’re losing touch with reality.”

Next, shift your focus from eliminating intrusive thoughts or feelings to breaking the loop itself. Judge yourself less, accept the broad range of your emotions, and reduce the resistance. As Matt puts it, “It’s not the feeling itself or the experiences themselves, but it’s your resistance to it.”

If you’re feeling stuck, hopeless, or overwhelmed, know that change is possible.

Final Message: You Are Normal

The main takeaway? You’re not crazy—you’re just in the loop. With the right tools and mindset, you can break free from anxiety and OCD cycles. It’s not about erasing thoughts or feelings, but about shifting your relationship with them.

Remember, you’re not alone—and you can find calm, clarity, and control again.

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